[Samantha Rogers]

Precisely correct. Many people report fantasies involving a real penis but with, as you say, a shadowy owner. I think there are many who find men "icky, but do have an attraction to a penis.
By the way, a point of clarification... attraction to males does not indicate attraction to ALL males, of course, anymore than attraction to females would indicate attraction to all females. I guess the unspoken implication was that the person in question was somehow attractive in the first place.