16-01-2014, 07:38 PM
Hi all, this is such a brilliant topic and I have been so absorbed in your posts, so much so, I felt I had little to contribute except to say that for nearly all of my 40+ years of marriage I have frequently engineered my wife spending time on top of me so that I could let my mind drift into pretending it was her that had the penis. This invariably would cause me to climax way too soon and I paid the price by trying to keep an erection against the odds.
Fast forward to now, she is now very reluctant to have any sex believing I would engineer or steer it towards a lesbian relationship
lol ! I did buy a vibrating Dildo in the hope it would arouse her sufficiently where we both would have joy with it, oh how wrong can one person be.
Basically she seems to have written sex out for her, yes I do accept our ages may have played a part in this, but I think it runs a little deeper insofar as my CD'ing is more to do with it. Looks like it's just me and the Dildo now lol! But I can derive so much pleasure and gratification just buying , wearing and parading in my feminine clothes at the moment.
Love Heather XX
Fast forward to now, she is now very reluctant to have any sex believing I would engineer or steer it towards a lesbian relationship
lol ! I did buy a vibrating Dildo in the hope it would arouse her sufficiently where we both would have joy with it, oh how wrong can one person be.Basically she seems to have written sex out for her, yes I do accept our ages may have played a part in this, but I think it runs a little deeper insofar as my CD'ing is more to do with it. Looks like it's just me and the Dildo now lol! But I can derive so much pleasure and gratification just buying , wearing and parading in my feminine clothes at the moment.
Love Heather XX