[MonikaT]

Ok everyone, how is this any different?


http://breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=14729highlight=wouldn%27+it+be+nice


Was this labeled porno?, or was this declared it shouldn't be in NBE, or has nothing to do with NBE?

I've posted dream girls as well, but let's be clear!

What's surprising is that the same members who find this offensive are clearly making light of it!, and using innuendo towards it!

Just saying here, what's so different?

I guess for me, the difference is the history of the person posting and what the motivation is. The posts that in recent times seem to offend come from folks who have been somewhat crude and crass from the moment they began posting a few months ago. Let's face it, "tits" just sounds more crude than "boobs" or "boobies." Word choice makes a difference. There's something innocent, child-like, and playful about "boobs." Little children use the word and act as if they are being naughty. "Tits" sounds harsh by comparison. Use it in a sentence. "Show me your tits," sounds like something out of a porno. I'm not sure I've ever heard a natal female use the word. Some B.S. about cracked skin on one's typing fingers and not having to type that one extra letter just sounds like a thin excuse to justify crude behavior. Use a little super glue and move on. Bottom line is the newer members do not have much of a history being a good contributor to the community. Lenneth does.

I certainly hope I wasn't the cause of this, the thread linked was not intended to be sexual in any way.

if its offends anyone I will gladly have it removed.

Lenneth,

You're fine, and your thread is fine. This thread right here is more about Doodlebug feeling uncomfortable because there was a convergence of several things, no one of which was cause for offense, but in their totality, reached critical mass for at least one person. Lotus was trying to point out that in the past there have been posts of a similar nature, and nobody seemed to complain. Don't worry. It's all good. In Doodlebug's defense, there really did seem to be a change in tone that occurred shortly after a few new folks joined the forum at about the same time. I was content to wait it out because things do tend to reach equilibrium, eventually. Oddly, before this thread was created, several folks I had issues with seemed to have stopped posting in here. Sadly, several valuable contributors also seemed to stop at the same time. Maybe the holidays were a factor.