[Lisa Raye]

Thank you CK!!

Thanks for sharing your experience and thanks for the advice.

I worry about the marriage. I feel like I am not sure of my own identity right now. That makes it hard for me to even know what to share with her. I know I have to explore a feminine side that I have always had. I have an increasing need to dress feminine. I feel a need to attempt to make myself more desirable to men (through dressing and make-up and having breasts. I even have a desire to please a man if he wishes. But I have a desire to please a woman if she desires as well. I do not have what I would call attractions to men's looks. Maybe I am bisexual while needing to be feminine. I don't know. If I get myself clear, I will know better how or if to share with her.

Thanks again,

Lisa