[sfem]

Jenny, I am reading a fairly mixed up situation from your posts on this. It sounds like you are discovering what sexual harassment has always been like for women. And your most recent post about "protecting" the younger person sounds like women who have been abused and still defend their abuser. There are a variety of reasons victims do this, but the main point is they are victims. Don't be a victim. Unless you are deciding you like this attention. In which case, stop protesting and enjoy. But the message you are sending is that it's okay to stay in an abusive situation and it never is.