12-11-2013, 03:44 AM
He did it again today (twice). The first time we were walking together chatting (talking shit after a smoke break) and and laughing about something, he went for a "nip-grab" maybe a "titty twister" type of thing, I blocked him with my elbow, we kept laughing and I "walked-it-off" and went to work.
The next time I was insanely bent over while working on something and he touched both "love handles" in passing, not a grab/sqeeze, but a poke on either side. By instinct (Martial Arts training) I almost kicked him in the face. Luckily I missed because he would be broken and I would be unemployed.
I talked to my immediate boss and asked to be moved to a different area so "I could have more room to work". He agreed that I need more space due to my work ethic and production level.
I also started to ask for help/info/tips from other people that I work with even though he is my mentor. I told him I may be moving to a different area and his face changed. The guy in me wants to beat him retarded.... the chick in me is bitchin' on the internet.
The "LIBRA" in me, if you're into astrology (I'm not, but I get it). I always weigh my options.
If this fool persists he's going to meet the darker (man) side of my persona. I'm very polite and friendly and repectful to everyone I interact with. I portray a MAN while at work (well, as much as I can anyway). Just a friendly, easy going guy.... Always willing to help and accomodate... I don't want to hurt anyone, but I am VERY capable of shoving his head up his own ass.
I KNOW (some) people can (and probably do) see what is "happening" with me. So far, no bullshit issues. My body is getting smaller, thinner, weaker, but I still get my work done. "Blind-eye"? Who knows?
Some things I used to "man-handle" I now I have to ask for help with... It sucks becoming weaker but it helps knowing most of the guys I work with are willing to help.
I only fear telling them the reason. Will I still have a job? How will they feel? I love what I do. How do you tell a whole group of men... "Hey, um, by the way, I'm a female in the wrong body"?
~Confused Jenny~
The next time I was insanely bent over while working on something and he touched both "love handles" in passing, not a grab/sqeeze, but a poke on either side. By instinct (Martial Arts training) I almost kicked him in the face. Luckily I missed because he would be broken and I would be unemployed.
I talked to my immediate boss and asked to be moved to a different area so "I could have more room to work". He agreed that I need more space due to my work ethic and production level.
I also started to ask for help/info/tips from other people that I work with even though he is my mentor. I told him I may be moving to a different area and his face changed. The guy in me wants to beat him retarded.... the chick in me is bitchin' on the internet.
The "LIBRA" in me, if you're into astrology (I'm not, but I get it). I always weigh my options.
If this fool persists he's going to meet the darker (man) side of my persona. I'm very polite and friendly and repectful to everyone I interact with. I portray a MAN while at work (well, as much as I can anyway). Just a friendly, easy going guy.... Always willing to help and accomodate... I don't want to hurt anyone, but I am VERY capable of shoving his head up his own ass.
I KNOW (some) people can (and probably do) see what is "happening" with me. So far, no bullshit issues. My body is getting smaller, thinner, weaker, but I still get my work done. "Blind-eye"? Who knows?
Some things I used to "man-handle" I now I have to ask for help with... It sucks becoming weaker but it helps knowing most of the guys I work with are willing to help.
I only fear telling them the reason. Will I still have a job? How will they feel? I love what I do. How do you tell a whole group of men... "Hey, um, by the way, I'm a female in the wrong body"?
~Confused Jenny~