23-08-2013, 01:54 PM
You could be right Miss.
Most of the time I have found if I treat people I meet with kindness
and respect they tend to over look my little oddities.
With that said I have also found to keep the inner girl in check.
Meaning that if you let your female look and mannerisms get out of hand, you become more female than generic everyday females and this will cause you problems. Nobody dresses like June Cleaver anymore except me
when I get home after work lol.
As far as family and friends.
That's on a need to know basis.
Meaning I do not advertise the fact I am transgender. If they ask I will tell them the truth and then its kinda up to them at that point.
My parents are both gone now and they never knew nor did I ever feel the need to express it to them. I will say I am sure they both realized I was a little out of the norm lol.
My sister who is 7 years older knows and while at first she did not quite get it, now excepts it and we are now better friends than we ever were growing up.
I am basically still single and being transgender and dating is another story in its self and this is not the place.
I do not speak for the others here, we all have our own reasons,goals and circumstances to deal with. Going on PM and growing breasts has been a great experience and I plan continuing on it. I have no desire at this point to go the SRS route, I am where I want to be for now.
If there is a 3rd gender I am probably it. (half swan half duck)
I see no point in debating words the outside world has come up with to
label us and put us in a neat little slot.
Elisa
Most of the time I have found if I treat people I meet with kindness
and respect they tend to over look my little oddities.
With that said I have also found to keep the inner girl in check.
Meaning that if you let your female look and mannerisms get out of hand, you become more female than generic everyday females and this will cause you problems. Nobody dresses like June Cleaver anymore except me
when I get home after work lol.
As far as family and friends.
That's on a need to know basis.
Meaning I do not advertise the fact I am transgender. If they ask I will tell them the truth and then its kinda up to them at that point.
My parents are both gone now and they never knew nor did I ever feel the need to express it to them. I will say I am sure they both realized I was a little out of the norm lol.
My sister who is 7 years older knows and while at first she did not quite get it, now excepts it and we are now better friends than we ever were growing up.
I am basically still single and being transgender and dating is another story in its self and this is not the place.
I do not speak for the others here, we all have our own reasons,goals and circumstances to deal with. Going on PM and growing breasts has been a great experience and I plan continuing on it. I have no desire at this point to go the SRS route, I am where I want to be for now.
If there is a 3rd gender I am probably it. (half swan half duck)
I see no point in debating words the outside world has come up with to
label us and put us in a neat little slot.
Elisa