[Lenneth]

Yeah. I never actually got it either. I did it because I thought that's what was expected of me. And at that time in my life it was all about the path of least resistance.

Yeah about the same, my Relatives are quite Rigidly Staunch in such things to which was why I gave in eventually.
(Sometimes you can only take so much pressure from every direction)

that is why I have not came out to any of them, the reaction from them save for a small few would not be something I would wish on anyone.