[AbiDrew85]

Annam
excellent post

and Abbi,

Inbetween, umm not sure, quite a few on here ie sfem and pansy are very balanced and strong in their mind sets and they are very much inbetween,

Now too me I would be mortified if I was diagnosed a full TS , because with my obssesive mind would have too want too do something about , but also know I would not , so would have too boil and suffer.

Wheareas I if I know I was a halfway and did not actually have too fully transition but actually growing breasts increasing e and actually doing something about it and "recognising" the "she" within me I would certainly be happier than if full TS.

We are a strange mix here, but without doubt the best mix as I am a member of many forums and without doubt this is the "middly balanced"

Julie

We are indeed. I was mainly speaking about the "public perception". Publicly I'm somewhat more accepted by society as a whole, especially if and when I ever get to a point where I just fade into the background and don't stand out terribly much from all the rest of the girls...

I guess we're just all who we are though and there's nothing we can do to change that. And it's very difficult for us to understand anyone with a situation unlike our own. Even other TS are going to be very different from me and hard for me to understand in some ways.

And annam, thank you for your thoughts. And don't sweat the language difficulties. I wouldn't even be able to string together a broken sentence in your language whatever it happens to be. And despite it being somewhat broken, it is still far far better constructed and sensible than many of the things I hear my fellow native speakers say...

I wish I knew if I had any kind of intersex condition... But my "maleness" was determined to be "obvious" enough to never be tested. And I sure can't afford to go get it done now.