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Ok the fight question or make a stance
Would you defend growing them if discovered or
If a partner said no more would you continue ,
Or leave a workplace if someone took a dislike

If discovered? I don't see how anyone could "discover" my intentions. It's kind of a non-issue. Mine aren't concealable. No-one has ever asked if I did it on purpose. I can't imagine anyone doing that, or that I would be concerned about the opinion of someone who would ask such a thing in a way that made me feel threatened enough to "fight". What kind of people do you spend your time around? If my wife told me she wanted me to do something to reverse what has changed on me, I would consider what options I had to make her happy. Leave the workplace? For someone taking a dislike? My skin isn't that thin. There have always been people in the workplace that weren't what I would call friendly or even considerate. I tend to see that as their problem, not mine. A good friend of mine has the following in his email signature. I think it applies to this question.
"Be yourself. Those that matter don't mind. Those that mind don't matter."