29-06-2013, 04:48 PM
(29-06-2013, 03:24 PM)julieTG Wrote: Ok the fight question or make a stance
Would you defend growing them if discovered or
If a partner said no more would you continue ,
Or leave a workplace if someone took a dislike
When dealing with strangers and acquaintances, I see little reason to defend, much less disclose my decision to grow breasts. It is rather inconceivable I think to those who have no familiarity with the transgender community of the possibility that I am purposely growing breasts. (I'm not trying to present or pass as a female.) I think the most likely possibility is that the vast majority of people who notice my development assume it's simply an unintentional hormonal imbalance. Short of reading my mind or doing a thorough search of my apartment, how would anyone know differently? If someone at my workplace had a dislike for my breast development, I would either ignore them, file a complaint, or find somewhere else to work. In all honesty, I think my co-workers are too busy, too mature, and not narrow-minded enough for this to become an issue.
As mentioned earlier, I'm single. If/when I get a partner, she'll have to accept them in order for any semblance of a serious relationship to be viable. Even before pursuing NBE, I realized finding someone who is open-minded is of crucial importance. I'm not going to stop NBE, crossdressing or any other gender-bending activities just to conform to expectations about who I should be or how should I act because of my physical sex.