[mochaccino]

NO, no, no. Tibetan, do not make the mistake of comparing yourself to Wahaika. You don't understand him at all, but I can't blame you for that. He dislikes anyone who does not confine themselves to extremely stereotypical gender and sexual norms. If he could read what you just said, he would openly distance himself from you because you had the audacity to admit that you're bi. He's somewhat misogynistic, and extremely paternalistic. He sent me a PM warning me not to take advice from female doctors because he believes that they do not know what they're doing. For me, that was really the straw that broke the camel's back, because after that, all his "help" just seemed like condescending pandering.

To both the OP and Tibetan, I personally don't have a problem with autogynephilia. As long as the person engaging in it is not hurting anyone (which is unfortunately not always easy to avoid), I don't see how there could be anything wrong with it. What I take issue with is men, who don't truly see themselves female, feminizing themselves in an irrevirsible way that could be difficult to hide. In that case, I am not at all offended by it, I just worry that they'll be extremely unhappy with it in the future. If their partner is ok with it, and they want to engage in subtle or temporary feminization, then it probably will not hurt them, and it definitely will not hurt anyone else (unless that someone else is dead set on being offended).

Transsexuals who are not autogynephiles are another matter entirely. I have absolutely no problem with sex change for these people, as long as it's done with all due consideration. Wahaika, on the other hand, is utterly against it, and a whole bunch of other things too.