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My wife has never been driven sexually. Wait, that came out wrong. I mean it has never seemed like it was very important to her. We have children, so rest assured she doesn't avoid it. She just isn't very motivated by it and has always been that way. My sex drive was always high my whole life prior to regular PM use. My T was very low before starting NBE. I have no way of knowing if it was that way throughout my life, but I would guess it has always been low. PM over time seems to have brought my desire for sex more in line with my my wife's inclinations, so that has worked out rather well for us. I am one of those who goes cold turkey occasionally for weeks at a time. When I do, my sex drive comes right back (lust distractions, porn, masturbation, crossdressing for stimulation, etc.). I personally feel I am better off with a lot less sex drive. I get no anxiety on PM. I have significant sexual frustration off it. Your mileage may vary.