[AbiDrew85]

He said that he doesn't want to help them destroy their lives and not something like he didn't want to help them because they are disgusting or whatever. If you believe that your actions are not helping others but harming them and you stop do you really think it's a bad thing?

Right. And this belief of his that we are destroying our lives is not itself being degrading and condemning and JUDGEMENTAL of and to us? C'mon.

I agree Luxy took things too far, but don't you think you are as well?

I was doing a mighty fine job of destroying my life while trying to live it as a male. If I were forced to truly go back to that I'm honestly not sure what would happen. I don't think I'd commit suicide straight out. But I'll also for certain cease living. I was an automaton before. Almost went comatose once. My bets are on actually GOING comatose. How long do you think a hospital would keep me on life support before pulling the plug? A pre-op transsexual without a penny to her name, no health insurance, no life insurance, parents in debt... Herself in debt to school loans. C'mon. Keeping me alive would just cost them money. Lots of it.

How's his refusal to help me preventing me from "destroying my life"? If I was not a person quite so darned stubborn and relentless in finding information to help myself, he could very well have devastated me and THAT would have truly "destroyed my life".

So who here's the pot calling which kettle black? I'm sorry mono, but your defense of him has no standing.

He IS being a bigot. But bigots CAN change, and I hope for his sake that someday he does. Because he's going to quickly find that this world is full of transsexuals and we're getting quite tired of it. I'm TAME and NICE about it. Someday he'll piss off the wrong girl and find out that I'm really a bit of a rarity.