29-07-2012, 02:26 AM
Before being exposed to the information and insights of this forum, I had thought that the loss of responsiveness of my male organs was mainly a physical effect of the medications I was taking, and that the increasing responsiveness of my breast area (sometimes approaching the extent described by Bryony and Sfem) to be a form of physical compensation for that loss. Having got off what I regarded as the medications most damaging to male function, Bryony urged and I agreed that I had a duty to my wife to try to restore effective male function.
Having tried quite hard for some time, and failed to achieve anything useable, it became clear that she would rather that I didn’t try to hard to achieve something that was causing both of us frustration, and that we should concentrate on things that do work for us: since when our physical relationship has greatly improved. Possibly TMI, but about the only thing that would produce any stirring of life in my male parts was nipple stimulation, and that stirring, as has tended to be the case for some years, disappeared instantly on any attempt to use the result. Now that I am only doing things that could in fact equally well be done by a female, everything is much happier for both of us.
At the same time the long period off phytoestrogens has brought back my desire for breasts in full force, even together with some cross-dressing urges which had never been strong in my case - the unappealing results were an instant turn-off. While I still think that restarting PM is too risky pending gallbladder surgery, I have now gradually and very carefully reverted to my pre-PM regime using less powerful herbs, which at least has made me feel better and may even have done something for my boobs, although losing 28lbs has had the kind of effect that might have been predicted. At least my cardiologist is very pleased with me!
Puzzlingly, my wife, who has achieved a proportionate weight loss, is now complaining that her bras are too small, and that she has not only been compelled to buy a C cup for the first time in her life, but that even that is none too large. Possibly there has been some change in shape that has made her recognize something that I had thought for some time!
Having tried quite hard for some time, and failed to achieve anything useable, it became clear that she would rather that I didn’t try to hard to achieve something that was causing both of us frustration, and that we should concentrate on things that do work for us: since when our physical relationship has greatly improved. Possibly TMI, but about the only thing that would produce any stirring of life in my male parts was nipple stimulation, and that stirring, as has tended to be the case for some years, disappeared instantly on any attempt to use the result. Now that I am only doing things that could in fact equally well be done by a female, everything is much happier for both of us.
At the same time the long period off phytoestrogens has brought back my desire for breasts in full force, even together with some cross-dressing urges which had never been strong in my case - the unappealing results were an instant turn-off. While I still think that restarting PM is too risky pending gallbladder surgery, I have now gradually and very carefully reverted to my pre-PM regime using less powerful herbs, which at least has made me feel better and may even have done something for my boobs, although losing 28lbs has had the kind of effect that might have been predicted. At least my cardiologist is very pleased with me!
Puzzlingly, my wife, who has achieved a proportionate weight loss, is now complaining that her bras are too small, and that she has not only been compelled to buy a C cup for the first time in her life, but that even that is none too large. Possibly there has been some change in shape that has made her recognize something that I had thought for some time!