[flamesabers]

"Babe I have very bad anxiety and stres (I do) and I was Googling and this natural herb came up a ton of places (it is advertised for anxiety as well how.I originally.found it) and was thinking of trying it out it seems to.work.just as well as medication just natural not synthetically lab created with chemicals.and such. Very cheap and.think.its worth a shot to help keep me at a more self peace instead of stressing and being upset all.the time...
sound alright?
Only issue I.know she'll Google it out.of.curiosity so.what do I say when.she brings up.the issue that this herb is also for feminization?
I really wish I.had.more of a spine damnit.lol.

I think one possible downside with this approach is she may inquire how much investigating you've done to find other herbs or methods to gain a sense of mental calmness. If you haven't done much looking around in this regard, she may question why are you so eager to take a herb that causes feminization, unless it is something you already wanted in the first place. Since it sounds like you want to feminize your body but still live as a male, I suggest telling her that. If you just wanted the mental calmness and not the physical feminization of your body, I think this would be a different issue entirely.

From what you've said about your girlfriend, it sounds like it's not the feminization itself that bothers her so much as your desire to feminize yourself. It's like your motivates in this matter is what she puts under more scrutiny than the end results. Perhaps the issue is more about whether she will accept your desire to be feminine rather than you growing a pair of breasts?