15-06-2012, 10:34 PM
Hi DLE, I just read this post (properly!) I have an awful habit of half reading. I believe every male has a feminine side the same as all women have a macho side. Women do a lot of male things, and no one bats an eyelid when women wear jeans tshirt and trainers. I know your goal is for breasts & not cross dressing as I gave an example of women accepted with there opposite ( being tomboyish ) But like you mentioned, some people can be real two faced and not give a damn, and sly chat behind people's backs. I've had it all my life and I've developed a thick skin to narrow minded idiots. It's very normal that men like breasts and there is nothing wrong with being a male and wanting breasts. If you don't do what you want to do, life will pass you by and you'll have missed out on the things that you desired, if it's what you want to do then go for it. We have one life, one chance. Your family would just think it was normal because they see you day to day, so as you develope and they become noticeable, you may get the odd look but that's about it.
A C cup is quite large, and you would definately need support, a D is also a big difference from a C, Like pansy Mae said a B cup is sufficient say for a guy, because you would be able to get away without some support, but even a B would be noticeable. I know you have your own programme and it seems a good way of doing it slowly. Guys don't have to be TG to want breasts, and usually you will find that guys who are not botherd if they have large boobs they happily go and get a tan, whereas those who desire breasts are more aware and shy away from removing there tops. I have read of many men wanting breasts & they immediately they think it would be right to transition, then they regret it and take there lives, it's a real shame for the loved ones left behind. You know what you want stick to your programme and keep around like minded people. I can't stress how I feel, and I bore myself with my constant moaning. It's not hard to guess there's something wrong because of my shape. I have a partner and to see us together people ethier assume we are lesbians, or I will hear the usual is that a male or female? Yes is that? I'm not a that. Time is passing me by, and it obvious I should be open about myself, it's just some fear I have, and I will do it when I'm comfortable to do it. Don't let social issues bother you, not that you do, but grow the breasts You desire and feel complete. I don't believe anyone is happy if they don't do what there hearts desire them to do. Go for a B, and see how you cope with that, because it is quite large when your walking with a B cup. Who knows? You may want a C if it makes s huge difference to how you feel.
Kell
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A C cup is quite large, and you would definately need support, a D is also a big difference from a C, Like pansy Mae said a B cup is sufficient say for a guy, because you would be able to get away without some support, but even a B would be noticeable. I know you have your own programme and it seems a good way of doing it slowly. Guys don't have to be TG to want breasts, and usually you will find that guys who are not botherd if they have large boobs they happily go and get a tan, whereas those who desire breasts are more aware and shy away from removing there tops. I have read of many men wanting breasts & they immediately they think it would be right to transition, then they regret it and take there lives, it's a real shame for the loved ones left behind. You know what you want stick to your programme and keep around like minded people. I can't stress how I feel, and I bore myself with my constant moaning. It's not hard to guess there's something wrong because of my shape. I have a partner and to see us together people ethier assume we are lesbians, or I will hear the usual is that a male or female? Yes is that? I'm not a that. Time is passing me by, and it obvious I should be open about myself, it's just some fear I have, and I will do it when I'm comfortable to do it. Don't let social issues bother you, not that you do, but grow the breasts You desire and feel complete. I don't believe anyone is happy if they don't do what there hearts desire them to do. Go for a B, and see how you cope with that, because it is quite large when your walking with a B cup. Who knows? You may want a C if it makes s huge difference to how you feel.
Kell
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