[bryony]

Thank, bryony. Those are all very good points to track. Spermcount isn't a big concern. Already have kids... a bunch of them.

I really appreciate the mass amount of information you just sent my way. My wife understands my desire. She just had that concern about actual sex drive. So from what I'm gathering from your comment, it might take a while to get the pilot lit, but the fire should still burn as bright.

Hard to say... I'll be 60 this year so things are a lot different for me. Better in a lot of ways, but I don't know how it affects the drive of younger people. Maybe they will contribute!

If your desire to do this is related to gender dysphoria (and it's hard to believe otherwise), then you may well experience an improvement... and it's no bad thing to make love when it's actually your wife's idea!

Just be alert for any daydreams about sex changes, and if/when they happen go cold turkey for a week.

Good luck!

B.