[bryony]

I agree with sfem, for me it is that simple. I was never bothered about who/what I am before I started PM but I did alwasy wish I had a nice pair of breasts, and although I'm happy that I've got 'em now, my only anxiety is that they seem to have stopped growing before I wanted them too! I'm not bothered about the world, sure it can be depressing at times but hey, that's life!
I'm not a golfer ( I think thats sfem's reference?) but I have just started on a lifetimes ambition to build a live steam railway in the garden!

Wow! That's impressive! I envy both your mechanical abilities (now, or when acquired) and how big your garden must be! (and more importantly, flat - my garden used to be the side of a railway embankment! )