[SarahSchilling]

what if it will go as far as sleeping together. she will see my qurarter size red slightly puffy aerolas and be like WTF is this? and there goes all of my confidence, that's why i was thinking about stopping.

I think lots of times we overestimate how much people actually care about a more feminine chest area. I've told my female best friend and my mom about my issues, and the responses have been pretty positive aside from health concerns. I even showed them to my BF and she actually asked to touch them lol

If you get close enough to this girl to sleep with her, and she isn't a totally shallow person, I doubt it'll be half the issue you expect.

Of course, a year from now it may be different. But don't drive yourself too nuts worrying about what others will think. Life is much too short and fragile for that. Not to say I wouldn't be nervous too....hell I won't even go to the doctor.

Just my opinion though...