26-02-2012, 12:46 PM
Chrissie, I think that we've all given up on listening to the negativity that you've brought to some of the users. While some of the points you make may be true, there isn't a one size fits all. Also: to lurk in the shadows after creating conflict just to stand back and say you're "avoiding" it by taking some time off because of our "ignorance" while waiting for new members, or other people who might think exactly like you do is simply pathetic.
As said in previous posts, if you have found inner peace within yourself then that's great: I am glad for you. Some of us may need to take our own risks, make our own mistakes and figure life out for ourselves. After 2-3 months without PM most of my progress has significantly reversed. I am not happy with the reversal but in my current circumstances I do what I need to. My coworkers noticed that I had breasts.. as a male -- I lived this and it was a reality. It wasn't a fantasy, and it felt okay. So please stop pretending that you know everything. I didn't stop PM because my coworkers noticed my breasts either, but am trying for a second child and want to make sure that I do what's best for him/her.
As said in previous posts, if you have found inner peace within yourself then that's great: I am glad for you. Some of us may need to take our own risks, make our own mistakes and figure life out for ourselves. After 2-3 months without PM most of my progress has significantly reversed. I am not happy with the reversal but in my current circumstances I do what I need to. My coworkers noticed that I had breasts.. as a male -- I lived this and it was a reality. It wasn't a fantasy, and it felt okay. So please stop pretending that you know everything. I didn't stop PM because my coworkers noticed my breasts either, but am trying for a second child and want to make sure that I do what's best for him/her.