15-12-2011, 11:00 AM
Bryony,
I don't call it exhibitionism unless I'm wearing a bra, which I won't do in public. When I am in public, no bra, it's just plain nonchalance to me. The boobs are "just there", and I'm not flaunting them. Wore a bra out once, under a sweatshirt and hoodie, and when I bent down to the bottom shelf to grab a six-pack of Pepsi, my wife was all over me for straps and band showing. If I wore a bra, it would seem like advertising the fact that I'm different and asking for a physical "intervention". More than enough nutcases around here willing to oblige. At least sansa-bra, if someone comments, I can just shrug it off. There are enough medium to larger framed fellas roaming around here with poorly shaped "moobs", that I don't expect to be inquired into. Hell, maybe the comment would be "nice tits"! And I would reply "thanks for noticing, guess they were worth the effort". (Or, maybe not). Probably just
and laugh. Honestly, I think that if anyone notices, and I'm sure some have, a very small percentage (none, in my case), would actually have the nerve to overcome their curiousity and say something.
Incidentally, most of the time when I'm wearing a bra at home, it's an underwire bra, of the normal size, but with the cups removed. I feel this has really helped to promote proper shaping and kept any moobiness from asserting itself. And they really don't bounce around, unless one gets into the running and jumping sort of thing. Were I able to get a pic to post, I'd give an example, but I haven't had any luck yet. Bye all, Patti
I don't call it exhibitionism unless I'm wearing a bra, which I won't do in public. When I am in public, no bra, it's just plain nonchalance to me. The boobs are "just there", and I'm not flaunting them. Wore a bra out once, under a sweatshirt and hoodie, and when I bent down to the bottom shelf to grab a six-pack of Pepsi, my wife was all over me for straps and band showing. If I wore a bra, it would seem like advertising the fact that I'm different and asking for a physical "intervention". More than enough nutcases around here willing to oblige. At least sansa-bra, if someone comments, I can just shrug it off. There are enough medium to larger framed fellas roaming around here with poorly shaped "moobs", that I don't expect to be inquired into. Hell, maybe the comment would be "nice tits"! And I would reply "thanks for noticing, guess they were worth the effort". (Or, maybe not). Probably just
and laugh. Honestly, I think that if anyone notices, and I'm sure some have, a very small percentage (none, in my case), would actually have the nerve to overcome their curiousity and say something. Incidentally, most of the time when I'm wearing a bra at home, it's an underwire bra, of the normal size, but with the cups removed. I feel this has really helped to promote proper shaping and kept any moobiness from asserting itself. And they really don't bounce around, unless one gets into the running and jumping sort of thing. Were I able to get a pic to post, I'd give an example, but I haven't had any luck yet. Bye all, Patti