[karen]

Karen,
If you cannot agree with this, then any future argument will be fruitless, and I would at least appreciate your commitment to "keeping the peace" by refraining from any further attacks. I, in turn, will try to ensure that people know that I am uttering "opinions" that they are free to ignore, maybe preceded with a "health warning".

Bryony

I can't agree with you. I just have too much life experience to think that everything is so "Black-and-white" ...... and I understand that sometimes those acts that may seem selfish to me may be allot more intense or not so clear cut to another and in some cases may even be "an only choice" .... and that unless I am in someone elses position then I am not in a position to judge whwether or not an action of theirs is selfish or not.

As your requested I will refrain from attacking you .... and in turn I ask that anytime you write a post, that you preview it, and question yourself .... do I know enough about a persons life to sit in judgement of what that person is doing .... and if you do not, don't click on the "Post Reply" button.

Karen