[bryony]

Real simple .... not even going to go over each piece of your post bit by bit ....

If you want to share you experiences with others that's cool .... once you get to the mode of offering opinions about how you can or can't understand what or why other do things .... NOT COOL.

That be judgement ..... and unless you be DA MAN .... your opinions aren't worth much

Karen ....

As they say ..... I'm back

Sorry Karen,

but I find what you are saying to be judgemental too.

I also find " not even going to go over each piece of your post bit by bit"
insulting and a clear indication of your inability to argue your case.

I take the trouble to write a screenful of reply to you and all you can say is that my opinions aren't worth much? No S---t Sherlock.

I don't care whether you dislike what I say - that's your choice. But if you can't even be bothered to get into a debate about what I say using rational logic, simply to pronounce ex cathedra what is or isn't cool, then I'm afraid I cannot take you seriously.

Feel free to make ad-hominem attacks in future, but if they aren't cogent, they will be ignored.

Bryony