15-11-2011, 03:35 AM
Beverley,
I am really pleased and amazed at the progress you have made, in the last few months; to a point, where you embrace the person you are. To me the clothes that you wear, are simply a mirror, to the person inside and I feel well accepted as Chrissie. I wear the clothes that I am comfortable in and reflect my body shape. The former means, I eschewe female cross dressing, but that is totaly linked to my eariest realisations, of being born in the wrong gender. I want nothing that, in any way, reminds me of being male. I am fast approaching a crisis, however. What the hell am I going to rear, to go sailing?
Like you, I do not get the TV thing, yet have a dear friend, who is TV.
I fully agree, with one caveat, about the itelligence of TS girls. Unique does have a few members, with learning difficulties and autism . I suspect that it means that you need a very strong mind to cope with being TS, or one free of the fears, constraints and prejudices, thar rule most people's lives.
I do find it notable, that prejudice/ unpleasant "clocking"; and I have received relatively little, comes from the yoby end of young / early middle age men; rarely from women.
I am really pleased and amazed at the progress you have made, in the last few months; to a point, where you embrace the person you are. To me the clothes that you wear, are simply a mirror, to the person inside and I feel well accepted as Chrissie. I wear the clothes that I am comfortable in and reflect my body shape. The former means, I eschewe female cross dressing, but that is totaly linked to my eariest realisations, of being born in the wrong gender. I want nothing that, in any way, reminds me of being male. I am fast approaching a crisis, however. What the hell am I going to rear, to go sailing?
Like you, I do not get the TV thing, yet have a dear friend, who is TV.
I fully agree, with one caveat, about the itelligence of TS girls. Unique does have a few members, with learning difficulties and autism . I suspect that it means that you need a very strong mind to cope with being TS, or one free of the fears, constraints and prejudices, thar rule most people's lives.
I do find it notable, that prejudice/ unpleasant "clocking"; and I have received relatively little, comes from the yoby end of young / early middle age men; rarely from women.