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2 problems; lack of study & practice and a lack of boobs

i agree on study and practice, google around "walking on heels" for some video, you'll find a lot of useful good lessons

Back in the late 60's/early 70's I used to wear mens cuban heeled boots and then felt very uncomfortable in flatter heels when the cubans went out of fashion for men.

I too in the 70's used to wear heeled male boots (more like texan style), and passing to flat shoes was somehow "destabilizing"... walking every day on any kind of heels shorten legaments and leg muscles, and also changes your centre of gravity, so when you get back with your feet on the ground it's a very strange sensation