[Pansy-Mae]

2 problems; lack of study & practice and a lack of boobs

i agree on study and practice, google around "walking on heels" for some video, you'll find a lot of useful good lessons

Yes, I agree about the practice, but it does also depend on body type to some extent.

I've been told in the past that I walk like my mother.
I'm not sure if that was a compliment or not, but I guess it translates that I have a naturally female way of walking in heels. Certainly I feel comfortable in them, and always have done. Back in the late 60's/early 70's I used to wear mens cuban heeled boots and then felt very uncomfortable in flatter heels when the cubans went out of fashion for men.
It was only about 18 months ago that I bought another pair with 2.5" heels and instantly felt comfortable in them. Since then I've worn nothing else when in male attire ( apart from 4" wedge mules around the house ).