[Pansy-Mae]

...DO NOT LIE TO HER OR TAKE HORMONES BEHIND HER BACK,

Do all the research and the calmly say Darling there something vrey important to discuss,

I had about 48 points on my list to make my point, did not need them,

She was upset that I had been in torture,

Totally agree with Julie about no deceit, you wouldn't be able to keep it up for life anyway and the eventual inevitable fallout would be 1000 times worse.

FWIW, my wife's reaction when I hesitantly suggested that... Umm, it won't work anyway but just maybe experimenting with herbs... and um... how would she feel?... was just, " Did you really expect me to say No?"

Having said that, my wife did know all about my CD-ing anyway and all women have different reactions to such things, so there is no guarantee that yours will feel the same as Julie's or mine, unfortunately.

I do however think that you need to get your T levels stable so that you are thinking straight and only then decide if feminisation is really what you want ( irrespective of the level you want to take it to). We can all only put our individual thoughts and experiences down, but none of us are where you are and none of us can advise what you should do.

Pansy Mae
PS, There is NOTHING like shopping for some strappy sandals!!