[Bibi]

Actually it´s a good thing you´re not in a rush to find someone. I think guys can somehow sense it when a girl/woman is looking for a mate, and they always back off because they seem to think she´s desperate and creepy! In my not to short experience with relationships, I´ve discovered that things work out best (and you meet the guys who treat you best) when you´re a bit reluctant to enter a relationship. When you´re too nice or accomodating, they soon become bored or even rude. So even if it upsets you that you´re alone at the moment, I´d advice you to behave as if it doesn´t! Just go through life thinking to yourself things like "I´m wonderful, any man would be lucky to have me, so I won´t settle with someone who doesn´t deserve me!". My experience is if you´re continually thinking things like that, people will look at you with other eyes. And you´ll get a lot more attention from men!

I agree that it´s a good idea to join some club to meet new people. Only be sure that the activity you´re choosing is something you´re really interested in, otherwise it´ll be obvious that you enrolled only to meet guys. I have girlfriends who went to some expensive nautical course in the hopes of meeting (rich) single men and it was a complete disaster! They didn´t meet anyone and were bored to death. Personally I think it was a bit pathetic, and it sure didn´t raise they self-esteem, it only made them feel bad.