shiraz, you can say you're not a transphobe and you support women, transgender, intersex or whatever groups of people, but it feels like you get to choose who fits into what category, and your words hurt even though you deny it. by constantly bringing up that this forum is for "genetic males", you exclude everyone with different genetics than you, then you try to soften it up by saying this forum can be also for others, that hurts even more. you get to decide who is a good person here, and who are the outcasts who can be spared some sympathy but if they open their mouths, they get the stick.
your words of all this being backed by science are hurtful, and inaccurate. science is methodical, peer-reviewed, and tries to describe the nature as accurately as possible. saying that someone is a genetic this or that, is not science. saying that someone's chromosomes make them this or that is not science. science would be, this person has these kinds of genes. this person has these kinds of chromosomes. you're leaping into conclusions and trying to pass them off as scientific facts, but they're your opinions, and they hurt people. and this is in glaring contrast against you saying you're not a transphobe etc. your way of talking down on us speaks your true views, not your disclaimers.
i'm sorry someone has called you something you're not. your resentment is understandable, but unacceptable. expecting that trans people can't be hurtful, trans people can't be idiotic, trans people can't make transphobic comments, is alienating us from the rest of humanity. every single human being is capable of unimaginable levels of atrocious and idiotic things. only those who have called you things are responsible for doing so. only you are responsible for the hurtful things you say. and the more you hurt people, the more people feel pain, and the more their words sharpen in desperation, so you get more fuel for your hateful fire. i see your pattern, you're trying to exhaust people and get them off your stomping grounds. just think on what that makes you.
alice, most trans people experience transphobia, hate and prejudice along their path, just as almost all cis women experience misogyny, hate and prejudice throughout their lives. this world is built to hate women and minorities. i'm sorry you have had it bad and i hope it will get better as more people realise we're all just that, people. you also end up hurting us all, including yourself, by allowing some hate because it's not the worst you've experienced. hate is contagious and it can't be allowed, at all. it finds root in the purest hearts and once it lives there, it's hard to get rid of. you can be kind and absolutely unwavering at the same time.
your words of all this being backed by science are hurtful, and inaccurate. science is methodical, peer-reviewed, and tries to describe the nature as accurately as possible. saying that someone is a genetic this or that, is not science. saying that someone's chromosomes make them this or that is not science. science would be, this person has these kinds of genes. this person has these kinds of chromosomes. you're leaping into conclusions and trying to pass them off as scientific facts, but they're your opinions, and they hurt people. and this is in glaring contrast against you saying you're not a transphobe etc. your way of talking down on us speaks your true views, not your disclaimers.
i'm sorry someone has called you something you're not. your resentment is understandable, but unacceptable. expecting that trans people can't be hurtful, trans people can't be idiotic, trans people can't make transphobic comments, is alienating us from the rest of humanity. every single human being is capable of unimaginable levels of atrocious and idiotic things. only those who have called you things are responsible for doing so. only you are responsible for the hurtful things you say. and the more you hurt people, the more people feel pain, and the more their words sharpen in desperation, so you get more fuel for your hateful fire. i see your pattern, you're trying to exhaust people and get them off your stomping grounds. just think on what that makes you.
alice, most trans people experience transphobia, hate and prejudice along their path, just as almost all cis women experience misogyny, hate and prejudice throughout their lives. this world is built to hate women and minorities. i'm sorry you have had it bad and i hope it will get better as more people realise we're all just that, people. you also end up hurting us all, including yourself, by allowing some hate because it's not the worst you've experienced. hate is contagious and it can't be allowed, at all. it finds root in the purest hearts and once it lives there, it's hard to get rid of. you can be kind and absolutely unwavering at the same time.