[Curvyguy]

@Heaven's Night I called you out in other threads, directly, when you were doing it. I see why you think that this thread was about you, but reality is that it's not just about you. 
The "Trannier than thou" issue comes and goes. Sometimes is connected with some sort of euphoria, and sometimes with political beliefs. In your case, I don't know, and I don't even know if I care about knowing what goes on in your mind. Breast growth is a constant thought in my head, but you aren't. Sorry.

Regarding your reply:

"Everybody knows who and what you areby now"
Not everybody goes on to read every other user's history when reading a new thread. Sorry for wasting 10 seconds of your life when clarifying my point of view. As you said in one of your recent posts on another tread, "Ignore is an option". Feel free to ignore me so you don't have to read again that I am a "male staying male".

"maybe someone has truly hurt your feelings by suggesting you may be an egg"
Yes, I've been called an egg. Yes, it hurt my feeling at the time. No, it doesn't hurt me anymore. But because I know how it feels, I try to prevent this from happening again and again to other people. I seriously don't get why some people don't undestand that calling someone an egg is practically misgendering them. I am not saying that the subject of asking someone if they feel like they are trans should be banned. But I have seen threads where the question was asked many times, sometimes not even as a question, and it's one of those things that can push other users away. There are a lot of forums out there for transgender people only. What is amazing about BreastNexum is that this space is not just for them and, because of that, many men come here looking for the answers and the acceptance that they can't get elsewhere.

"You only respect other crossdressing dudes here"
Really? And you accused me of gaslighting... 

"Its more than just that, its more than just "guys" here and always has been. Don't try to push us "others" out because we do belong here too. Yea, boobs, everybody knows what the forum is about. Subtle pushing away of non cis sex people isn't doing any favours here. No one is pushing any "isms" here and transgender identities are not an ideology, it is not an "ism".
Brave, yes as long as men try to oppress the fuck out of us, we will be brave as its forced upon us."
I am not pushing anyone away. Actually, I have always clarified in my posts that every user has the same dignity. The same. The problem with you is that "The same" doesn't fly well with you at all. Just read the last line up here about "men trying to oppress us". I don't have a problem with trans people, but you definitely have a problem with men. Everything in your eyes is oppression when it comes from a man. The language you use is divisive, not unifying. You pick up fights with more or less anyone who doesn't share your views 100%, and this is pushing people away. I usually try to stay as far as possible from your personal program thread, but out of curiosity I checked it out and the amount of insult and abuse towards me and other users who committed the sin of not agreeing with you is absolutely incredible. 

I don't have any transphobia to drop. You perceive every word I say as transphobic when it doesn't align with your beliefs. Transphobia doesn't mean to have a problem with one trans person, but to have a problem with the idea of trans itself. The fact that I don't agree with you doesn't make me transphobic, it only means that I don't like some of the stuff you say or how you behave.

Then again, this thread is not just about you. So all the stuff in your reply where you said that you didn't do one thing or said the other... it wasn't for you.

Sounds like someone is butthurt. You have bad experiences with transwomen in past mate? They wouldn't play with you or something? Sounds like it to me bullying HN here is same as bullying any woman and is a hate crime in UK as you well know.

You want argue the toss fine but not at expense of other members mental health.

So do everyone a favour and shut it!