[kanony]

I agree in theory - bras should not be gendered if there's a need for them. But well, they kind of still are in the mind of most of the society. 
I think it comes down to how progressive the partner is, and how progressive the society is. Unfortunately I live in Eastern Europe and these conservative modes of thought are deeply rooted here.
It's mostly the admitting to her that I'm big enough now to need one that I'm afraid of. There's this mutual don't ask, don't tell dynamic that has developed about them, and I don't really want to break it because I don't know what the consequences would be or how it would play out. It's safer to just keep things as they are, I guess.
Especially since she doesn't seem to be a big fan of my boobs and I understand her feelings - a guy shouldn't have as big a bust as his wife 
So yeah, I don't wanna stir up trouble unless I need to - I'll keep doing NBE and well, this topic will probably arise naturally at some point.