02-02-2026, 11:29 PM
what the fuck?
this thread started with the very real concern that many of us do have, and now the damage control team is here telling us that there's nothing like that happening on this forum, it's a great place, you're all imagining things? or just get used to it? it's the internet so you should expect to get harassed? what??
you all have no business telling Heaven's Night or anyone else what does or does not take place here. if you haven't experienced negative things yourselves, does not mean they aren't there! seriously, people, try to have even a smidge of empathy, instead of closing your eyes and ears and telling everything is fine when it's clearly not.
Manue, you wrote lately "BN’s purpose is discussion of breast development for people who are navigating male-typical physiology and endocrine profiles" but like... what is "male-typical"? are intersex people excluded here as well, as in so many other niches and self-proclaimed safe spaces that really just cater to one audience?
and if people say something unhinged, those affected absolutely have the fucking right to defend themselves, like how does nobody condemn the one saying unhinged shit but then are condemning those who say something back? like, instead of defending yourself, you should be silent and accept that you're gonna get bullied because this is the internet?
fucking hell. not only the misogynistic and transphobic things that keep being said out loud on this forum but also the belittling responses here make my blood boil.
this thread started with the very real concern that many of us do have, and now the damage control team is here telling us that there's nothing like that happening on this forum, it's a great place, you're all imagining things? or just get used to it? it's the internet so you should expect to get harassed? what??
you all have no business telling Heaven's Night or anyone else what does or does not take place here. if you haven't experienced negative things yourselves, does not mean they aren't there! seriously, people, try to have even a smidge of empathy, instead of closing your eyes and ears and telling everything is fine when it's clearly not.
Manue, you wrote lately "BN’s purpose is discussion of breast development for people who are navigating male-typical physiology and endocrine profiles" but like... what is "male-typical"? are intersex people excluded here as well, as in so many other niches and self-proclaimed safe spaces that really just cater to one audience?
and if people say something unhinged, those affected absolutely have the fucking right to defend themselves, like how does nobody condemn the one saying unhinged shit but then are condemning those who say something back? like, instead of defending yourself, you should be silent and accept that you're gonna get bullied because this is the internet?
fucking hell. not only the misogynistic and transphobic things that keep being said out loud on this forum but also the belittling responses here make my blood boil.