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in the meantime, I am still trying to find the courage to tell my wife I purposely grew breasts.  I started the thread to maybe get a little support, not to talk about guys being attracted to breasts and whatever else y'all rambling about.   I have my opinions on this topic.  But I will keep them to myself. or maybe start a new thread on it.

PerkyAcups - I have really enjoyed reading your posts.  Thanks for sharing so much detail.  In regards to coming clean with your wife I would caution you to be careful, if you are not sure how your wife will react.  Nobody knows your wife as good as you do but once you come completely clean in regards to your breast growth there is no putting the genie back in the bottle, so to speak.  Woman are notorious for saying one thing but thinking another.  She may be supportive when you first tell her but change her mind once she has had a chance to think it over.

Perhaps you and your wife could have more discussions about your breasts?  You could ask her point blank if she is ashamed of you for having man boobs?  Or does she think of you being less of a man, for wearing a bra?  This might give you a good indication on where her head is at.  You could also be positive about it, and say something like, "I know this might seem weird but I sometimes like how my breasts look and feel at times.  I enjoy how sensitive they have become, especially when you suck on them".  See if she continues to respond positively to discussions regarding your breasts.  Maybe ask her if you should have a mammogram as a way to start further discussions about your breasts?   I know you have already had a lot of discussions with her and she seems to be very supportive so perhaps what I am suggesting is not needed?  Just my thoughts.

Let us know how it goes.