[Vana_B]

in the meantime, I am still trying to find the courage to tell my wife I purposely grew breasts. 

My guess is she probably already knows or at least suspects it.   The conversation with my wife started many years ago with her asking about the breast pumps and nipple pumps in the drawer.  I told her it was a sexual turn on I liked how they felt after.   Once she brought them up, I started wearing the noogle cups more often and and not trying to hiding it from her.   She is also aware that I take supplements, and is free to go through that drawer,  but has never asked details.   I have never explicitly told her I am trying to grow breasts. 

For me it has made it much easier not having to try and hide anything.    Good Luck with however you proceed!