[Mashtenn]

You raised some good points.  For me it was a gradual process.  I'm happy with my growth and development that it is hard not be noticed.  I found out that you have to become confident and happy as your breasts develop.  Work was not an issue.  I first started out wearing bras at work I was wearing loose shirts and sometimes a jacket during the winter months.  As spring and summer arrived wearing of jackets was out the door.  Everyone at work never said anything.  They accepted who I was.  One coworker asked if I was wearing a bra one day and I quickly said yes I was.  Wearing a bra and showing my development in public was never an issue either.  I'm sure I've gotten some stares but that never bothered me.  I can't say that I've been to a beach or pool but if I did I would probably wear a t-shirt.  Family and gatherings I don't have any problems.  The main point is you have to gain the confidence to be seen wherever you are.  Once I got the confidence I was happy.  People today seem accept people for who they are.  I hope this helps.