[Shirazmn]

@Perky that's amazing.
When your wife does that it provides a mountain of validation! It's a huge step! I am very happy for you!

I would suggest you play it carefully now. Use the tank tops only when nobody outside the couple is around. Normalize it slowly, but make it "your little secret". Validation is a slippery slope. Savour it rather than shooting it down! With time you'll be able to build on it.