06-09-2024, 09:37 PM
I think it's normal to have doubts. Everyone gets them form time to time.
You ha e to ask why did I start or why I am doing this. Maybe do a pro vs con list.
There's many ways to combat doubt.
But purging is a cycle. And it can last for many years until you finally find who you are and what you want and what your goals are.
Most people purge bc they feel ashamed or have guilt for one reason or another. Especially if its growing breast, cross dressing or even trying to transition in secret. All purging does is waste more time and more money. But it's hard to break free from those cycles.
There are a lot of articles on how to deal with doubts online, and how to stop purging as well.
Dr z on YouTube talks about doubts and purging, however she uses it in terms of people who crossdress, are trans, and or non binary, as well as a few other categories of individuals. She has many topics that are very useful and helpful.
Sometimes all we need to do is talk about how we feel and why we are having doubts and have another person say that doesn't make sense you just answered your own question, or give us a different perspective.
Here is a link about how to combat doubts, but it is speaking in terms for someone who is transitioning. But the concepts are the same either way to deal with your.doubts
https://www.transhub.org.au/changing-your-mind#being-doubted-by-others
You ha e to ask why did I start or why I am doing this. Maybe do a pro vs con list.
There's many ways to combat doubt.
But purging is a cycle. And it can last for many years until you finally find who you are and what you want and what your goals are.
Most people purge bc they feel ashamed or have guilt for one reason or another. Especially if its growing breast, cross dressing or even trying to transition in secret. All purging does is waste more time and more money. But it's hard to break free from those cycles.
There are a lot of articles on how to deal with doubts online, and how to stop purging as well.
Dr z on YouTube talks about doubts and purging, however she uses it in terms of people who crossdress, are trans, and or non binary, as well as a few other categories of individuals. She has many topics that are very useful and helpful.
Sometimes all we need to do is talk about how we feel and why we are having doubts and have another person say that doesn't make sense you just answered your own question, or give us a different perspective.
Here is a link about how to combat doubts, but it is speaking in terms for someone who is transitioning. But the concepts are the same either way to deal with your.doubts
https://www.transhub.org.au/changing-your-mind#being-doubted-by-others