22-06-2024, 08:53 AM
Hi CM
The point of me not transitioning into an 18 years old fetish fantasy of mine wasn't to explain why I didn't transition, but to give an example of why I never would. I have a Platonic view of the matter, and I would never settle for anything less than perfect, so I would never start. For myself I apply the rule that I'd rather be an average guy than an ugly woman (trans or not). but this view about feminization comes from the fact that I still believe that I am cis, and I do realise that trans women NEED to transition no matter the result.
The underlying message is what HT wrote after me. Set yourself some realistic transition goals for your body, and be ready to live with whatever is the actual outcome of your transition.
On the upper side, your wife seems to be somehow on board with this. Having someone to talk to is hugely important and it will help you moving the goal posts from time to time and adapt to wha tlife throws at you.
Good luck!
The point of me not transitioning into an 18 years old fetish fantasy of mine wasn't to explain why I didn't transition, but to give an example of why I never would. I have a Platonic view of the matter, and I would never settle for anything less than perfect, so I would never start. For myself I apply the rule that I'd rather be an average guy than an ugly woman (trans or not). but this view about feminization comes from the fact that I still believe that I am cis, and I do realise that trans women NEED to transition no matter the result.
The underlying message is what HT wrote after me. Set yourself some realistic transition goals for your body, and be ready to live with whatever is the actual outcome of your transition.
On the upper side, your wife seems to be somehow on board with this. Having someone to talk to is hugely important and it will help you moving the goal posts from time to time and adapt to wha tlife throws at you.
Good luck!