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We def are looking into therapy. I feel we have more issues than just me being trans. I suggested that for our search we should try to find one that also has experience with couples where one spouse is trans or is going through some form of transition since it would most likely come out in therapy. She did not seem too interested or enthusiastic about me making a suggestion that we find a therapist that can also do that along with reg  marriage consoling. She felt that me being trans would be the fo front and cast a shadow on everything else.... So pretty much she wants to ignore it and not deal with it and all the emotions she has from it. 

I myself am going to continue my own one on one sessions with my gender identity specific therapist. My hope is to get everything j need in order to move forward with a transition if I wanted to. Like support letters etc. 

Hopefully after that I can take those to the VA and hopefully they will use them so I don't have to start over with mental health evaluations with a VA therapist.