15-05-2024, 08:30 PM
Pooky
You don't need to apologize to me at all I'm not offended or hurt in any way. I'm glad your wife is as supporting as she is. but you said it some spouses are supporting and some spouses aren't it's not your fault that mine isn't and there's nothing you or I could do to change it. it's going to be self growth on her own part, only she can do that work.
Do I hope she comes around yes. Will she who knows. Will it be devastating if she decides she wants a divorce. Of course. But that's all on her. I can say I tried, and she will be losing the best person she's ever been in a relationship with and again that's on her if she ultimately decides that is the way she what to go.
So don't be sorry. It's an unfortunate situation yes but it is a very common one. It gives me joy to read about your supportive spouse, and gives me hope for the future
You don't need to apologize to me at all I'm not offended or hurt in any way. I'm glad your wife is as supporting as she is. but you said it some spouses are supporting and some spouses aren't it's not your fault that mine isn't and there's nothing you or I could do to change it. it's going to be self growth on her own part, only she can do that work.
Do I hope she comes around yes. Will she who knows. Will it be devastating if she decides she wants a divorce. Of course. But that's all on her. I can say I tried, and she will be losing the best person she's ever been in a relationship with and again that's on her if she ultimately decides that is the way she what to go.
So don't be sorry. It's an unfortunate situation yes but it is a very common one. It gives me joy to read about your supportive spouse, and gives me hope for the future