[fartsalot]

I don't think I really want to wear a bra.  I am still very much a male staying male.  But I am thinking my wife is starting to really notice I have breasts.  

It's is getting warm here now.  The last few weeks I am always topless at home.  Several times while standing talking to her, out of no where she reaches out and pinches both nipples or flicks them.  Last week she bumped into me and said sorry I didn't mean to punch your boobs.  She points out my nipples are showing threw my my tshirt.  I think she might be noticing how feminine they look.  But she hasn't said I need to put a shirt on around the house or outside.

Sounds like she might enjoy them as much as you do. She hasn't openly and straight forward said anything negative about them, I think you're good. Hell she may have even been or is bi curious and this is her chance to enjoy that side of herself without actually being with another woman, and or being unfaithful to explore that, or bringing in a third person into the bedroom.

she likes to play with other woman's breasts when the moment presents itself.

The girlfriend I had who couldn’t keep her hands off my nipples said I brought out her lesbian side.

That girl was a keeper, you lost out there