[Zhuzhu]

Where do I start ..lol

I do not play with female filters, don't care what an AI thinks what I may look like with 50k of surgery's.

I am just under 60. I came out to my wife 5 years ago , after playing with NBE for 12 months or so.

5'11" 190lb.. After a few years of being part time Jannet and gaining more confidence, I turned full time just over 12 months ago.


4 years HRT, I can still easily pass as male. I still occasionally get called sir when out and about.

My voice, even with voice training is a PITA.

As mentioned, "mostly" we just pass as middle age females. Unless we have to get somebody',s attention, most people either do not notice or do not care.

At some point, we have to stop caring what other people think I am doing this for me, not them.

The more you go out, the better things feel.

Janet,

You are correct I am at the point of not really caring about what other's think.  I just want to be comfortable in my own skin.  If people can accept me for who I am that is lovely, if not they are not worth being upset over.  I am done with be a chameleon but still not quite at the point where I can truly emerge as my true self.  I guess this too takes time.  Zhu