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We are all on our own journey, it's nice to read that your wife is supportive and understanding.

If I can make a suggestion, google rice sizers. By making a rice sizer and putting them in a bra, it can give you a close approximate of what the look and feel of different cups are.
I can definitely say, C cups would be difficult to hide in male mode. All I wear now is sports bra's and they are definitely out there.

They look lovely Jannet.  Did you lose any sensitivity?  I'm still hiding mine.