[BigBoobieBen]

Hello sestra Titsonmen

You sound a lot like I did 10 years ago.  I was adamant that I didn't want to feminize at all.   I just wanted a nice set of breasts.  I wanted to be a man, but with boobs.  I wanted to maintain my male performance, libido, ability to attain and maintain an erection. And for a good while, that's exactly the path I was on.  

However, as time went on, as my breasts started to form and take shape, I found something I didn't even know I was looking for.   I found the real me, a woman begging to break out, fighting against her own genetics.  It was subtle, and slow,  but I learned more about who I am in the past 10 years than I ever did during the 30 years prior.

Now, maybe there is a neurological component.   Maybe I suffered some rewiring in the brain as a result of the hormonal changes.  Maybe I only wanted to feminize because of the herbs.  I don't know, and I never will know, because the only way to know would be to go back and not do it.  I am happy with the woman I have become.

I wanted to be a man with breasts, 
I was destined to be a woman with a penis.

And yes, for the record, I do still have male function, but it takes a lot of work.   Luckily, my wife loves the new me, too.

Can I ask, did you do any thing or not do something to maintain your ability to get an Erectile function?