Eeeew that's graphic, but have fun with that. Piercing....not my thing. An old girlfriend who is astonishingly beautiful wanted to have a piercing under her lower lip, I told her I wouldn't hang up the Mona Lisa by hammering a nail through her jaw. So she made me marry her instead.
But seriously what you have is natural and impressive I wouldn't change that, just tell her grow a dick or shut the F up bitch.