[Dianna1395]

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You are ultimately responsible for your own health; not the doctor.  My mother was put into a hospital by a careless doctor and four additional doctors who treated her tried to kill her.  The only reason she did not die was I was her medical advocate and I knew enough and researched her medical issues to correct the doctor's actions.  Many doctors do not like medical advocates who are knowledgeable; it gets in the way of their egos. I fortunately had 2 doctors in the family to help me keep my mother alive a little while longer.  The original careless doctor's mistake (wrong medication that lead to a stroke that was caused by a blood clot) is what killed her. My comments above are not original. Any medical website will have a version of the warnings I list.

THIS.  emphasis mine.
My sympathies on your mother, The Girl, my father had similar enough: Doctor ignored he was on blood thinners, injected more 9now 200% max dose) - and he basically bled into his lungs and drowned in his own blood.
Got to love doctors like that...