Hiya Happyme,
Your link is really timely, as I'm investigating Nettle, which a medical site said promotes gynecomastia, and another says it blocks 5-alpha-reductase, so it inhibits DHT. Then in one of the threads here I read "Binds to SHBG, increases estrogen and testosterone". This is like a detective novel. Thanks for the help.
To your last question, "flaunt them where and with whom I can, wear a sports bra otherwise". I have contemplated that question, but with my progress to-date, I've never been close to needing that answer, and might never. Hope springs eternal.
Banshee