[Neoma]

Hi Martin I'm from the UK too but my name really is Drew. What that f-ING bitch stood on your neck until you passed out? I would have broken that leg that stood on me in a heartbeat. I get the feeling one feels when wearing nice things, I get extremely aroused when I'm ..let's just say fully kitted out. An abusive relationship isn't a relationship it's a trial and the abuser is very good at convincing you that you cannot get anything better than them so you become absolutely devoted are scared of losing this person as they control your life and feel you need that person to function, you DONT!. Yes I had an awful bitch like that too, happy that you got out of that and I do understand. It's difficult to express emotions in just a few words but I do get it it and have felt it honestly I have and it's embarrassing but also fulfilling now as I can now tell that bitch who controlled my life to just fuck off I don't need you.

Hi Drew.  I'm actually from the north of the UK but at the moment I'm down south on business.  And thank you.  Not many people can understand what someone in a controlling relationship goes through and I'm always asked "Why didn't you just leave her" and it's not that simple, you think you love them and as you said, they make you feel like you won't do any better and you should be grateful they are putting up with you.  I ended up joining a support group, the stories I've heard in that group makes me realise it could have been so much worse.