[Valkyrie2020]

I do see where you are coming from and applaud this post. I don't think there is any person more critical on BN about their own body and dissapointed and jealous of others than myself. But I'm extraordinary top heavy, my bras are bursting at the seams and I'm my own worst critic.I see and understand the post but ......idk? Stop typing crap Drew!

I understand the struggle Drew. I get down on myself a lot too about other things and keeping a positive mindset all the time seems impossible. And you know what? That's okay, too. You always have a new day to start over. Take it slow. Try not to think about how you are top heavy. Remember, humans come in many different shapes and sizes. Even the girls out there that seem like they got it all, including a nice rack, will still have something about themselves they don't like no matter how perfect they look in the public. Don't be so concerned about being top heavy as there are ciswomen who are built just like you and possibly bigger.

I also had to learn to stop comparing my progress to others. I would tell myself things like, "I might only be a B cup, but there are women out there that are not as fortunate as me. My body is doing her best and I am grateful she has carried me this far." Once I started telling myself this, it became a little easier to stop comparing myself to others and I started to see them as inspirations rather than someone to chase.

If your bras are bursting out, then you are well on your way! Praise your girls for being bra destroyers, lol.